Friday, June 3, 2011

Graduation for #4

My daughter graduated from high school last weekend. Her older siblings made a surprise visit from Utah to see her graduate so we had a weekend full of fun.

We have our graduation exercises on the football field at our high school. Two years ago, for my older daughter's graduation, it rained and rained. And, to top it off, my youngest daughter barfed all over the man sitting in front of us. This year, thankfully, the weather was perfect and no one was sick.

I enjoyed the speech by a local elementary school principal who said they'd learned most of what they needed to know in elementary school. He shared valuable advice tied to each letter of the alphabet. It was a fun speech.

We don't have a valedictorian or a salutatorian because the administration didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings (yet, kids are cut from the football team, only a handful start for basketball, and I've comforted more than one child who didn't make it into the high school play so I'm not sure why we don't have the traditional valedictorian and salutatorian). Instead, the kids choose a classmate to speak (and doesn't that hurt kids' feelings?) and this particular young man gave a speech that was all over the place. I'm still not sure what he was talking about. However, the speeches by two young women chosen by the faculty were completely inappropriate. Filled with sexual innuendos, digs at conservatives who attended a rally for John McCain (students came specifically to this rally held at the high school to berate, belittle, and harass McCain supporters using profanity and showing vulgar signs and were incensed when asked to tone it down or leave), and then went on to say how they could now add the "hot" teachers on Facebook and even named a teacher (who's married) that they'd be adding. Their speeches were immature, rude, and embarrassing. However, they weren't surprising, which is a sad statement for our high school.

Fortunately, none of this dampened our excitement and pride as child #4 received her diploma. I was very proud of her. She worked hard and we had a huge celebration for her graduation.

Here are some photos:


David G. Woolley said...

Awesome family! And cute photos. Sorry the didn't invite Elder Holland or maybe Elder Uctdorf to speak at graduation. Sometimes you have to let other people have a turn. Sounds like your HS isn't a place for religious minded folk. Eh?

Rebecca Talley said...

When my daughter graduated from Snow College Elder Holland spoke and it was awesome. Loved it. Yes, our HS frowns upon religion, morals, values, conservatives, etc. The majority of kids and teachers espouse tolerance for everyone and everything except for white Christian conservatives. The upside is that my kids have gained their testimonies by the refining fires of opposition and prejudice so, in the end, it's been a good thing. My kids can go anywhere and retain their values and morals.